Finding the right anniversary gift gets a lot easier when you know the traditional and modern themes for each year. These themes—dating back more than a century—symbolize the strength, growth, and meaning behind every milestone, from paper at one year to diamond at sixty.
This guide gives you the full list of anniversary gifts by year, what each theme represents, and simple, thoughtful gift ideas anyone can use.
How the Anniversary Gift Lists Work
There are two main gift lists: traditional and modern. The traditional version has been around since the early 1900s. The modern list came later to offer updated, more flexible ideas.
You can stick with one, mix both, or skip them entirely. No rules here—just inspiration.
Traditional vs. Modern Themes
Traditional gifts reflect how your relationship grows stronger over time.
Modern gifts offer updated suggestions that feel more practical or personal.
Pick whichever sparks the best idea.

Anniversary Gifts by Year (Complete List)
1st Anniversary — Paper | Clock (Modern)
Meaning: A fresh start—delicate, full of promise.
Gift ideas:
Personalized print
Handwritten love letter
Tickets to a show or event
Custom journal
A photo book
2nd Anniversary — Cotton | China (Modern)
Meaning: Comfort, flexibility, and strength.
Gift ideas:
Matching cotton robes
Upgraded sheets
Custom pillowcases
Cotton throw blanket
Tea set
3rd Anniversary — Leather | Crystal or Glass (Modern)
Meaning: Protection and resilience.
Gift ideas:
Leather wallet or bag
Personalized passport cover
Leather-bound journal
Crystal glassware
Engraved decanter
4th Anniversary — Fruit/Flowers | Appliances (Modern)
Meaning: Blooming love and growth.
Gift ideas:
Fresh floral arrangement
Fruit subscription box
Flower-pressed artwork
Air fryer, coffee maker, or other appliance
5th Anniversary — Wood | Silverware (Modern)
Meaning: Strong roots and lasting connection.
Gift ideas:
Custom wood cutting board
Engraved photo frame
Carved keepsake box
Silverware set
6th Anniversary — Iron or Candy | Wood (Modern)
Meaning: Strength with a touch of sweetness.
Gift ideas:
Cast iron cookware
Personalized iron sculpture
Spa day (Honeyfund experience gift)
Gourmet chocolates
Wood home decor
7th Anniversary — Copper or Wool | Desk Sets (Modern)
Meaning: Warmth and comfort.
Gift ideas:
Copper mugs or cookware
Wool throw blanket
Copper jewelry
Desk organizer set
8th Anniversary — Bronze | Linens/Lace (Modern)
Meaning: Resilience and elegance.
Gift ideas:
Bronze figurine or sculpture
Bronze or copper jewelry
Linen bedding set
Lace robe or sleepwear
9th Anniversary — Pottery or Willow | Leather (Modern)
Meaning: Flexibility and craftsmanship.
Gift ideas:
Handmade pottery
Willow picnic basket
Leather duffle or accessories
Personalized mug set
10th Anniversary — Tin or Aluminum | Diamond Jewelry (Modern)
Meaning: Durability and radiance.
Gift ideas:
Tin keepsake box or ornament
Aluminum art piece
Diamond earrings or necklace
Trip through your Honeyfund Anniversary Fund
11th Anniversary — Steel | Fashion Jewelry (Modern)
Meaning: Strength and resilience.
Gift ideas:
Steel watch
Personalized steel keychain
Barware set
Fashion jewelry
12th Anniversary — Silk/Linen | Pearls (Modern)
Meaning: Comfort and luxury.
Gift ideas:
Silk sheets or pajamas
Linen loungewear
Pearl jewelry
Silk robe
13th Anniversary — Lace | Textiles/Furs (Modern)
Meaning: Intricacy and connection.
Gift ideas:
Lace decor or accessories
Throw blankets
Personalized textile artwork
Faux fur throws or slippers
14th Anniversary — Ivory (Ethical) | Gold Jewelry (Modern)
Meaning: Wisdom and value.
Gift ideas:
Faux-ivory or bone decor
Gold bracelet or necklace
Mother-of-pearl accents
15th Anniversary — Crystal | Watches (Modern)
Meaning: Clarity and reflection.
Gift ideas:
Crystal glasses or candle holders
Engraved watch
Crystal home decor
20th Anniversary — China | Platinum (Modern)
Meaning: Elegance and strength.
Gift ideas:
China dinnerware
Personalized platter
Platinum jewelry
Weekend getaway (Honeyfund)
25th Anniversary — Silver | Silver (Modern)
Meaning: Radiance and celebration.
Gift ideas:
Silver jewelry
Silver-framed photo
Keepsake box
30th Anniversary — Pearl | Diamond (Modern)
Meaning: Wisdom and beauty.
Gift ideas:
Pearl necklace or earrings
Diamond bracelet
Pearl keepsake box
35th Anniversary — Coral | Jade (Modern)
Meaning: Protection and harmony.
Gift ideas:
Coral-inspired decor (ethically sourced)
Jade jewelry
Coral-toned home items
40th Anniversary — Ruby | Ruby (Modern)
Meaning: Passion and deep love.
Gift ideas:
Ruby necklace or ring
Ruby-red accessories
Experience gift (Honeyfund Fund)
45th Anniversary — Sapphire | Sapphire (Modern)
Meaning: Loyalty and truth.
Gift ideas:
Sapphire earrings
Sapphire tie pin
Framed anniversary photo with blue accents
50th Anniversary — Gold | Gold (Modern)
Meaning: Prosperity and endurance.
Gift ideas:
Gold jewelry
Gold-trimmed frame
Gold-dipped rose
Luxury trip (Honeyfund)
55th Anniversary — Emerald | Emerald (Modern)
Meaning: Growth and lasting love.
Gift ideas:
Emerald pendant or ring
Green-themed celebration
Emerald-colored keepsake
60th Anniversary — Diamond | Diamond (Modern)
Meaning: A lifetime of strength and commitment.
Gift ideas:
Diamond pendant or ring
Diamond watch
Custom diamond gift
Luxury getaway (hello: Honeyfund Anniversary Fund!)
Frequently Asked Questions
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They’re a list of symbolic materials for each milestone, from paper to diamond.
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Traditional gifts focus on symbolism. Modern gifts offer more updated, practical options.
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Yes, but loosely. Most couples treat it as inspiration, not a rulebook.
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We’ve got you. Scroll below for gift guides by recipient, budget, or interest.